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The definitive guide to creating the sex life of your wildest dreamsjust by talking about itfrom sexpert couple Vanessa and Xander Marin

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Why is it so hard to talk about sex even with the person who regularly sees you naked

You know communication is important in a relationship but you just dont know how to get started with such a sensitive subject Maybe youve never talked about sex at all and the thought of it makes your palms sweat Or youre feeling so disconnected from your partner that sex is the last thing on your mind Maybe youre too scared to be honest about what you really want Or you have no freaking clue what you want so youre not sure how to tell your partner anything helpful

Sex Talks helps us overcome the myths that drag us down John Gottman New York Times bestselling author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work Together sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander show you that the best thing you can do for your sex life doesnt even involve taking off your clothes

Sex Talks covers the five essential conversations every couple needs to have
1 Acknowledgement aka Sex is a thing and we have it
2 Connection aka What do we need to feel connected to each other
3 Desire aka What do we each need to get turned on
4 Pleasure aka What do we each need to feel good
5 Exploration aka What should we try next

With gripping storytelling and an intimate peek at what really goes on behind other couples closed bedroom doors Vanessa and Xander share their successful advice that has already helped thousands of clients Sex Talks redefines what it means to have great sex Logan Ury author of How to Not Die Alone providing the sex education you wish youd had plus the triedandtested tools you need to create the sex life of your wildest dreams